The joy of meeting someone from one’s country
in a foreign land is immense. So much so
that, without slightest of hesitation and reservation you start blabbering. How homely and at ease you feel, when you meet
your countrymen. It is a wonderful feel until you learn your lesson the hard
way. A Bhutanese woman married to an Indian national conned me of Rs. 2000.00, that
too after being served them with foods and drinks with utmost hospitality.
Never thought someone at their age would dare to commit such crime and soil
their name, that too in front of their kid.
This is how I met them, how they outsmarted me
and my friend’s, painted our foreheads with guilt of attending them so well.
I met a couple in Jaipur Bus station and had
the same sensation; the wonderful and homely feel when you meet someone who
speaks the same language as yours. I was
having a cup noddle while waiting for my bus to Ajmer. A couple with a baby
girl came and sat facing my chair in the waiting room. Their beautiful baby
girl enjoyed watching me eat and play with my phone simultaneously. It looked like, the baby girl’s audience over
me triggered parent’s attention as well and after a bit of whispering to one another’s
ear, husband looked towards me and started talking.
Upon conversation with them for a while, the
man happened to be an Indian national who worked in eastern Bhutan as a civil
engineer for a private construction firm and his wife, Bhutanese national from
Samdrup Jongkhar. I was told that, they had been living in Delhi where the husband
works as a Civil engineer in a private firm until recently where he is transferred
to Rajasthan. They too happened to be heading towards Ajmer; their present
residence, in same bus where I had my reservation. Thus we started our journey
after exchanging mobile numbers and making a point to meet in Ajmer.
It was a Sunday and I was taking the full
advantage of holiday in my bed until phone call woke me. It was them; the
couple I met, informing about their visit to my place. We had a great time over
special courier brandy, rice, sag datshi and interesting talks followed by loud
and lengthy laughs. At one time he claimed his close connection with minister
of the previous government whom he tried to call, to which
we requested not to. Onto what they ate, we also packed them red Bhutanese
chili, Lom (dried turnip-leaf) and dried mushroom thinking they (she) might want to eat them after so many years.
They were about to leave when the husband with
an innocent face approached me and asked for Rs. 3000.00. Earlier we were told
that he earns almost Rs.100, 000.00 a month and I was wondering, how on earth a
man earning such amount is less of Rs. 3000.00? Before I could utter a word, I was
told not to tell his wife about it, stating she is suffering from cancer and he
doesn't want to bother her. Sometimes it’s hard not to believe when compassion
grows naturally in you and tend to mistake crocodile tears for a genuine one. I
did not have cash and asked for my friend’s, and together we managed Rs.2000.00
which he promised to return in two days. And now it’s about four/five months
without even a trace of them keep aside the money.
Every time one tells something, other either
supplements or continues with another story. That’s how two of them make
perfect combo in deception. This, I knew only after knowing their true
intention later. Also later we came to know
about their real identity as well. Both fled from Bhutan for: wife was
convicted for criminal case and husband for excessive conning.
Though part of their story featuring me and my friend’s
ends here, we are certain that there are many such stories with guest characters
like us and if you are not careful with people you meet along the way, you will
be next. You cannot guarantee happiness simply being Bhutanese or from the land of GNH, so be informed
of such individuals and stay smart unlike ME & MY FRIENDS!
Wangyel,
ReplyDeleteI should say u have done a great Jimba.....ha ha ha....well be careful next time.....
Acho la,
DeleteHad it been a whole hearted jimba, I won't have expressed my regret, frustration and posted......lol
Anyways , am happy that though it was never a jimba, 'receiver took it that way"...
Thank you ajo for finding time to read many rubbish and leaving a comment. Regards to family!
So sorry to hear about what happened. After all your trust had been betrayed and it must be painful, also a lesson to learn not to trust strangers too early.
ReplyDeleteYeah! It is. But I guess I will tag myself to "once beaten twice shy"
DeleteAlso,Thank you for finding time to read my rubbish post and leaving comment.
Have a nice day!
Sad to learn that, bro. Yeah, we really can't trust anyone. Forget strangers. Nice write up. Keep updating.
ReplyDeleteBy the way I came to Ajmer train station on the way to Delhi. Do you far away from it? Just asking. :) Have a good day.
Thank you, langa.
DeleteAlso how I wish we fixed the time and met , Ajmer junction is just 15 mins away from my place. Anyways, I believe in "there is always next time" .....hehe
Sorry to know that and it is well said that we can't judge the book by its cover. World is filling up with cruelty over kindness. ANyways be careful next time brother Pema.
ReplyDeleteI tried to send the song, sung na oii, it takes time to upload and still i am trying!!
Have a nice day and be happy!!
Yeah! I got to be more care full hence forth.
DeleteAlso I received your song . Thank you so much and don't forget to do the same when you get new Songs.
Enjoyed reading your blog... Great job.
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking time to read my blog post and leaving a comment.
DeleteHave a nice day!